Yesterday morning I woke up, albeit a little bit later than I was meant to, but around 7 something am and I was alive and well. It was raining hard outside, I could hear it crashing on my window and the roof above. This pretty much automatically eliminated the run I had planned to go on in my head the night before- but I didn’t feel any major devastation because a few more minutes of warmth sounded like bliss.
I reached out to get the water bottle on my bedside table and without meaning too I knocked my mirror a little bit. It lost balance, and my almost full length mirror that had been on the bedside table propped against the wall suddenly crashed onto the ground, shattering into shards and tiny pieces all over the floor of my already messy and overflowing room.
“BOLLOCKS”.
Because seriously? Who needs that. one because i actually liked that mirror, two because I don’t have another one, and three, there are now shards of glass finding their way into the crevices of my overcrowded hub which I had let get to a messy state.
I decided I literally couldn’t deal- too much effort, no time, and decided to leave the glass there.
-Side note (never do this, because going back to when you were a two year old toddler and your parents made them avoid smashed glass because they knew it would cut you- they were right!)
So I skipped around and tiptoed to avoid the glass, got ready in the bathroom and left the house to go on my errand and university filled day which had no time for me to stop and pick up all the broken pieces that my mirror had left me with.
Later on in the day, I was rushing home, going for the run I had skipped earlier, had a job interview and had tickets to a show at night. When I got home from my run and before getting picked up for the show, I had a few minutes of free-ish time. I mean- I could have changed outfit a few more times or taken a power nap to give me that little bit more energy for the night. I chose the latter.
As I sat down on my bed, I glanced around at the floor covered in shattered glass.
“Ill pick it up later” I muttered to myself.
“I’ll wear shoes inside the house at all times until I have fixed it another day.” I inwardly acknowledged.
It would be effort to do it. Time I just didn’t want to give it- energy I didn’t want to spend. I would rather just leave it and deal with it another day or another time when I felt like I had more mind space to give it.
But something in me stopped. I remembered how in reality- I would probably end up hurting myself. I kind of need my arteries, and I definitely need my feet. And so I decided to remove the glass.
I picked up the big bits first. Then the medium. Then spent the remaining time looking in corners with a brush and pan in the crevices trying to pull out the little tiny pieces of debris which already without much human movement in the room that day had woven themselves into places I didn’t even think possible.
I went to bed after the show so happy I had taken the time to pick up the glass. Because doing something earlier that I would thank myself for later- felt good.
In the middle of the night something in me in subconscious found some significance in the broken mirror and the picking up of the pieces.
Sometimes in life- things shatter. We can see the big bits- we know that there are things that have broken down and have left us with little more than an empty wooden mirror frame and some shards of glass which if left untouched and uncollected could leave us damaged far beyond what would have been if we had taken the effort to clear them up before they had time to further break down and spread out further into our space. But often- we leave them. “It’s going to be too painful” or we don’t know how to get all the pieces together, we just for various reasons, leave the shattered pieces.
What if the glass had moved itself around through naturally the movement in the room, and one day years later, I had stepped on another piece and hurt myself deeply, all because i left it to sit through not wanting to give the effort to pick up the shards. Just not wanting to deal.
For things that have broken down in life. See the therapist, talk to your friends, put in the effort to weed out the broken shards so that you do not have to days, weeks, months, years later have to deal with ignored shattered pieces. But instead you can start new, acknowledging what was broken, but looking behind without a path of destructive debris, but a cleared pathway where you can move from a place of clarity.
Things may still come up. I’m pretty sure under my bed between the boxes theres a few shimmery bits still waiting for a second look, but for the most part- I just avoided unneccessary damage.
Happy, not so rainy, Wednesday. xo